Is work-life balance just a myth?

Being an entrepreneur entails responsibilities and commitments towards your organisation, employees and your investors irrespective of your gender, despite the opinions of everyone in your circle. Being a woman or a man doesn’t make it easier or more difficult.

The 24 X 7 lifestyle requires a specific mindset, strong determination and robust resilience. You must be willing to throw out the rule book and make your own set of rules. This includes the mythical work-life balance. Don’t believe anyone who says there is one in the entrepreneurship life.

However, developing your unique way to balance both aspects of your life so that they bring joy to you is highly recommended for a successful and happy stint as an entrepreneur. Here are my five rules that you can use to get started:    

The term ‘work life’ balance is misleading. Your life cannot start after you step out of your work office. Your work is a huge part of who you are and where you spend most of your day. It is part of your ‘life’ and your personal life must be in harmony with it. Plus, this is a constantly evolving equation. What worked for you at the beginning of your career may not be applicable in the later stages of your career, might not work for you now.

Finding a work –life continuum

In entrepreneurship, there is no shutting down, hence finding the right time to accomplish things that are essential while making sure nothing is compromised is essential. Find time in your workday to do what you love. Learning how to juggle your work schedules is important while making sure your roles at home are also divided fairly. Your partner at home has a huge role to play in this aspect to bring about a fair balance. The list differs for each individual; hence one should be smart enough to identify what works well for them and sustain it. There is no perfect balance. Create one that works for you.

Learn how to prioritise

Identifying the important things in your life and creating a to-do list that helps you prioritise is important in order to get your work done faster and more efficiently. Set boundaries. The more your work life filters into your personal life and vice versa, the harder it is to maintain that balance. This boundary is essential for your emotional and mental well-being and happiness. Eliminate low-value tasks and focus more on the activities that help you find a purpose and fulfilment in your work.

Dedicate some ‘me’ time

Since we live in a connected world that never sleeps, learning how and when to unplug is extremely essential to live a stress-free life. Spend time doing things that you really love to do.While your job is important, it should not be your entire life. Your mental and physical state of mind should allow you to reset and recharge yourself, whether it’s going to a gym, reading, meditation, going for a walk or catching your favourite movie with friends and family. If you can’t set aside time for it, weave this into your workday. For example,ave meetings at the gym and get your senior staff to walk with you on the treadmill next to you; Have team outings at a meditation centre that benefit your peace of mind or have a bake off with your team. Do one task everyday that helps you renew your creative energies on a regular basis and help you attain the highest potential.

Learning to say ‘no’ is the keyword

Being an entrepreneur can be a daunting task as your time during the workday is limited. You need to be clear about your company objectives and your workday. Every day. And if the opportunity presented to you does not meet your personal objectives then you have to let it go. However tough it is. This thought process will also help you lead your team better and setting equal work distribution among your employees.

As women, we have been type-cast as flexible multi-taskers, which can also translate into divided focus and lesser work output for the day. There are days when you will be the ultimate multi-tasker, but you will notice they don’t necessarily get your best output. As far as possible, drive your day with intent and focus.

Create your own calendar

Setting your own activity log will help you analyse and track how you spend your time at work or at home. There are several virtual assistants that can help you do this at your own pace.  This can improve your style of working and reduce the unproductive workload which causes unnecessary burden or stress. For instance, if you feel that attending a weekly staff meeting consumes all your time and adds little value to your work, you could consider asking your colleague or employee to take notes on your behalf. If your child’s recital is important then you can reschedule a meeting that suits your time frame. Don’t be apologetic about managing your own time according to your convenience.

Now, chuck out this rule book and make your own.

(Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed in this article are those of the author and do not necessarily reflect the views of YourStory.) 

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